Have you ever liked someone so much that you started to see a future with them? I mean, all of a sudden you're having daydreams about your wedding, kids & family vacations. Nowadays it's more men that's thinking like this just as much as females. Why, because when they finally believe that they found wifey, it's a wrap! After so many failed relationships, this one may be the right one.
Then all of a sudden, things start to change even before the relationship status. You start to like them so much, you start treating the person as if you officially go together. Once you get to this point in your head, the expectations of them change & so does the dynamic. "How come you're not hitting me with daily good morning text, how come I'm always contacting you first? How come you're not asking me about my days or paying attention to my tones to notice I'm upset."
The questions start coming in and now you're getting upset with the person for not doing what you think they should. Is that fair? Did you communicate with them on how you feel? Are they aware in your mind, the relationship status changed? If you pay attention, you're getting mad at what they're not doing and they're being turned off by you having unnecessary tension with them for no reason. Open your mouth, communicate properly and stop jumping the gun before you get shot. Thinking about it, that's all I'm saying.
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