The southern gentleman. A women’s dream. Well mannered, hospitable, with that cute accent, SOLD! Well, I thought I was, but based off what I experienced, let’s just say TIME HAS CHANGED!
When I moved to the south from my home state Connecticut, things changed. As I began to adjust, it’s been all work no play so I decided to live a little. Let’s see what these southern men are all about & they came flooded! I’m a workaholic so I’m used to being around my music colleagues. This is my first time being around normal men on the regular.
I noticed a pattern with each man that approached me. They were either already in a relationship, a male thot or married. For a moment I questioned myself. Am I coming off as a certain type of female? If so, I need to reevaluate my life! Then with the quickness, I said I need to stop tripping. I’m not doing anything wrong. I’m out here minding my business, dressed appropriately, well manned, soft-spoken with a beautiful smile. I’m not giving off that “bust down thotiana” vibes so it must be them.
I noticed a pattern with each man that approached me. They were either already in a relationship, a male thot or married. For a moment I questioned myself. Am I coming off as a certain type of female? If so, I need to reevaluate my life! Then with the quickness, I said I need to stop tripping. I’m not doing anything wrong. I’m out here minding my business, dressed appropriately, well manned, soft-spoken with a beautiful smile. I’m not giving off that “bust down thotiana” vibes so it must be them.
Many of them haven’t even made it passed a conversation let alone a date.
1st Guy: I have a “friend” but it’s not serious because we’re not married.
Uummmm does she know she’s just a friend?
2nd Guy: Your voice gives me a hard-on & makes me wanna do some things. I’m about to hop in the shower to cool off, you want to video chat & watch?
Uummmmm I don’t know you like that.
3rd Guy: I’m in town on business, I have an ole lady at home. I just want a female to kick it with while I’m here.
Uummmmm am I an escort?
4th Guy: Why you playing with me? When you gonna let me get that kitty kat. You can’t be stingy.
Uummmmm, leave my vagina out of this!
5th Guy: I got money, I want to take care of you. I’m married but I still want to have fun. You like married men right?
Ummm wait…WHAT??!!!!
There were a few more but you get my drift. Now by no means am I saying all men are like this. You know my blog is my personal experiences & everything from MY perspective. All I’m saying is, this is not a great start to trying to get to know new people.
I honestly want to just get back in my work bubble & call it day like I was doing before because this is too much! I have much more to say but I’ll keep that for my up & coming book so stay tuned.
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